Thursday, October 1, 2009

The Power of Consquences

Okay, I generally try to stay positive in this blogosphere, but I'm going to join some angry protests about this one. Hollywood is one messed up place. Sometimes I forget that, but I got reminded in a big way this week.

Finally after evading police for over 30 years, Roman Polanski was arrested this week in Switzerland for the 1977 rape of a 13 year old girl. And some people in Hollywood are DEFENDING HIM!!! They are signing petitions asking that he not be extradited to California to face the sentence that he should have faced 30 years ago, but wasn't man enough to do. I mean, I know that the world-view in Hollywood can be pretty screwy but really, defending him. There is no doubt the man is a brilliant director and has a gift for telling a story, but that does NOT excuse the fact that he got this young girl, drunk and high and then had sex with her. I realize he lost his wife and unborn child to the Manson murders, but that does not give him free reign to steal the innocence of a young girl. On top of that he was a coward and he ran.

She was practically a baby. I don't care if he says it was consensual. He was an ADULT and she was a CHILD. Adults are supposed to protect and look out for children, not use them for their own pleasure. That's messed up enough. But the fact that some in Hollywood are defending him, using his art and his age and his philanthropy to try to make it look like the police have arrested Mother Teresa. AUGH!!!

Now, I realize I have said here before that sin is sin and it doesn't matter what it is you've done that it's all equal in the eyes of God. I still stand by that truth. And I also realize that it's perhaps somewhat hypocritical of me to have sort of defended Michael Jackson and yet vilify Roman Polanski. Difference being the Polanski confessed to his deed and then ran from his punishment. In Jackson's case, it has never been proven beyond a shadow of a doubt he did anything to children. I also understand what it is to have a friend accused of something that you cannot fathom them doing. You see, I had a good friend who was accused of being a pedophile. When I heard about the allegations I couldn't believe it, not this person I knew. If I had to testify in court I would have to say that guy I knew I never would think could do that, but it didn't make it any less true in the end. The last I heard, my friend was in prison serving time for his crime. So how can people in good conscience defend Roman Polanski when he himself has said it was true!! I don't care if it was yesterday or 70 years ago, he needs to pay for his crime. Sherrie Shepard, one of the panelists on "The View" got it right when she said on Twitter the other day, "we hunt down 75 year old Nazis. We must protect our children." We don't care how old a terrorist is when he's arrested, why should we care that Polanski is in his 70's and a French citizen. That doesn't make him unaccountable for the crime that he did on American soil when he was in his 40's.

So as you can tell, I'm a little up in arms about this. I know Hollywood is full of ridiculously liberal people who live a lifestyle in complete opposition to my life and belief system, but honestly with all the support that they give to women's rights, how can they support this? I guess it's because they don't believe in the power of consequences. Not really anyway. Facing consquences is hard. It's in consequences we learn that life isn't really all about me. When we sin (and all of us do) there are consequences, in some cases its something small in the scheme of things like learning how to manage your money better, in other cases its big like having to win back the trust of a spouse or a friend after a betrayal. If we believe in the power of consequences we use them to learn and grow and make us better. Usually it takes a lot of strength and work and even more importantly faith to do that. God can use our greatest failure to create our greatest triumph if we turn it over to him. If we don't believe the power of consquences then we run from them or pretend they have no impact. We reinforce the idea that life really is all about me. The funny thing is, that when we do that, they manage to continue to pop up in one way or another. In Polanski's case, it was the law finally catching up with him, in other cases it's broken relationships or addictions or a plethora of other things. These people who are defending Polanski are really keeping him from the power of the consequences in his life. I wonder how much greater his art would have been if he had acknowledged his sin as sin, asked to be forgiven of it and taken the consquences. If it's up to the Hollywood elite, we'll never know.